I reread the post, and I put my fangs away. I was going to use them to tear the shit outta MD tonight. But I won’t. But I will make sure I am heard. There are some legit problems that he needs to fix if he’s going to be married to me. Like lying. And other stuff I won’t mention that has nearly tore our family apart because of his selfishness. He needs to realize that I get me time too. He needs to understand that I am not his babysitter. I don’t think these requests are unreasonable.
At the same time, i will think before I bitch. I will be more supportive of his volleyball obsession. I will continue to bowl with him. I will continue to take my meds. I will stop accusing him of cheating – as long as there are no suspicious happenings again. I will try to understand that he needs tv to relax and unwind. I guess.
We’ll see what happens.