Still slower songs and I’m suffering from it
I’m about to be friendless because I’m about to write a text that would eliminate my friends with P. I haven’t written it yet but I know what it will say. I’m going to wait until tomorrow and if I still feel the same way I’m going to send it.
And I decided that with J I’m going to wait until she’s ready to come to me . I’m sick of sending texts and emails that she never respond to.
I feel like an idiot. Like I’m putting myself out there and nobody gives a shit. So I’m done. I have my life and my kids and my husband, and I’ll have them back in my life when they make the first step.
thank God I have this blog.
Just throwing this out there because its the first thing that popped into my head when reading about P- and it’s an occupational hazard from working w/ abuse victims. Any chance this guy she’s with is a douchebag to the point of controlling who she has contact with? Some men are so controlling and insecure that they can’t stand their woman keeping ties with other friends and family. Takes away attention from his ass. And most of these women are so blinded by “love” that they don’t see it- and when they finally do, they’re in so deep that they’re scared to defy because of how he’ll react.
Or she’s simply inconsiderate and really is putting him ahead because she wants to. I just have a hard time swallowing that she would totally flake your bday because of some man unless he’s an ass. Y’all have a long history.
Personally, I would send an email or letter in which I would express how you feel. Don’t say she’s making you feel this way, say “this is how I feel.” You deserve an explanation but you won’t get it if you go in anger blazing. With a letter or email, you can write it- when you feel the emotions boiling over, you can walk away and come back when you’re calmer. Do you have mutual friends? Ask what they think. You have every right to let her know you are hurt- just try to express yourself in a calm manner. If she disregards that- then be as much of a bitch as you want.
Michelle | December 27, 2012 | 7:08 pm